If you think someone you know is being stalked there are lots of ways in which you can help them. 

Stalking is when someone shows persistent and unwanted attention towards an individual or makes contact with them in ways that make them feel distressed or that their freedom is being restricted. 

When individual incidents are put together they can reveal a pattern of obsessive behaviour. 

Stalking is contrary to the University’s Dignity at Work and Study Policy. 

                                Think 


Are they in immediate danger? If they are in immediate danger or seriously injured, you can call 999 (or 112 from a mobile).  If you are on campus, you should tell Security (01483 683333) that the emergency services are on their way and give details of the individual’s location. 

Find a safe space: if an incident has just happened, try and find somewhere they feel safe. If they are on campus and this isn't possible, you can suggest they call Security on 01483 683333. 

                                 Talk 


Listen: just taking the time to listen to someone and talk about what has happened can help. These six active listening tips might help you support them. 

Give options: when they have finished talking ask them if they are ok to talk through some possible options and next steps. 

Security: our Security team can talk through how to make a report and what support is available. 

University of Surrey Students Union (USSU) can talk students through what options are available and support you through the process. This support includes attending any meetings with the University. 

Trade unions are organised groups of workers who come together to support each other in the workplace. The University of Surrey recognises three campus trade unions: Unison, UCU and Unite. 

                              Report 


Report and Support: students and staff can report an incident using the University’s Report and Support system. You can choose to do this anonymously or you can request support from a member of staff. The University takes every report seriously and carefully considers what action to take. 

                         Get support 

Take care of yourself: it’s important that you take care of yourself. If you’ve heard something distressing or if something is troubling you, the University's Centre for Wellbeing offers confidential help and is open to both students and staff. 
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